James Frater3 days ago3 minYou Are What You Say You AreI remember saying on a panel for young professionals that “people will believe whatever you say to them”. We were talking about imposter...
James FraterApr 242 minTussling With Fear2022 is shaping up to be a pivotal year in my life and the ambiguity of what happens next is something that excites me… for the most...
James FraterMar 273 minRemember, Our Parents Are People TooI thought it would be fitting to write this on Mother’s Day because …it’s Mother’s Day and it's a day for celebrating one of our parents...
James FraterFeb 273 minLove Loudly: A Recipe For ReassurancePlease, this title does not mean that you should go around with a boombox harassing people into relationships. That is not what I am...
James FraterJan 303 minLiving Audaciously: A Life That You ChooseThis is something that I think about all the time but it is only recently that I have found the words to describe it. Some will call it...
James FraterApr 21, 20213 minYou’ve got your justice, are you happy now?Once there was news that the verdict had been reached by the jury in the George Floyd case, there was an unequivocal feeling of anxiety...
James FraterApr 20, 20213 minI don’t even trust myself “I put no trust in my bow, my sword does not bring me victory; but you give us victory over our enemies, you put our adversaries to...
James FraterOct 11, 20203 min“Little old me?! I can’t charge for that!”People always ask me “how much should I charge for this?”, “am I allowed to charge for this?” or “how do I ask them to pay me for this?”....
James FraterJun 8, 20203 minKaren Kulture The Karen trend has been something I have observed for a while, and I have struggled to understand why it has bothered me so much. Until...
James FraterMay 30, 20203 minKilling black people is not normal.Sometimes, unconsciously, I watch videos of police brutality, and my heart rate will begin to increase. I know what is going to happen...
James FraterMar 10, 20205 minHappy Birthday To Me As I sit here reflecting on my last 12 months, I am feeling a little anxious about my birthday because I always feel like I need to do...
James FraterFeb 18, 20203 minFor Those Who Hate The Idea Of Networking Very often, I hear people throwing around the term networking. You must network. Networking is important. Networking is how to REALLY get...
James FraterDec 31, 20194 min10 Years of James Frater “James – I don’t just believe in you – I totally know and believe you will be a Nation shaper of outstanding excellence” This decade has...
James FraterNov 16, 20193 minFix Your Focus Strap in. We are going on a rollercoaster *waheyyyyyy* As you may or may not know, I turned TWEENTY FREE in March. It really hit me...
James FraterJun 20, 20194 minWHERE HAVE THESE 6 MONTHS GONE?!It’s been a while since I have written one of these, so I think this is a nice way to ease myself back in. I write a lot of these posts...
James FraterFeb 15, 20194 minWhat a time to be vulnerableThis has most definitely been a season of continued growth and all I can do is thank God. A lot of things that I will say in this post...
James FraterJan 12, 20194 minWhat 2018 taught me? I have finally been released from the shackles of exams, so I will be resuming my life again. This is the first order of business. It's a...
James FraterOct 8, 20183 minAre these Accolades important?On paper this has been an incredible 12 months. I have been able to meet amazing people, I have been involved in amazing projects and I...